Official solution
P (Exactly one of A or B)
\[ = P\left( {A \cap \overline B } \right) + \left( {\overline A \cap B} \right) = {5 \over 9}\]
\[ = P(A)P(\overline B ) + P(\overline A )P(B) = {5 \over 9}\]
\[ \Rightarrow P(A)(1 - P(B)) + (1 - P(A))P(B) = {5 \over 9}\]
\[ \Rightarrow p(1 - 2p) + (1 - p)2p = {5 \over 9}\]
\[ \Rightarrow 36{p^2} - 27p + 5 = 0\]
\[ \Rightarrow p = {1 \over 3}\] or \[{5 \over {12}}\]
\[{p_{\max }} = {5 \over {12}}\]